Having a Viewing Before the Funeral
Along with choosing the right flowers for the funeral service and an appropriate music selection, one of the biggest decisions we can make when planning a loved one’s funeral is whether or not to hold a viewing as part of the service.
In many cultures the viewing of the loved ones body plays a significant role in the memorial and for others it is an important step in the grieving process.
The decision to hold a viewing is highly personal one.
What Happens At A Viewing?
A viewing is a ritual held prior to the funeral service where guests are offered the opportunity to visit with the deceased one final time to say their goodbyes. The casket can either remain open or closed during the viewing, depending on the personal wishes of the deceased’s loved ones, or cultural and religious traditions.
The casket is displayed in the funeral home or in another area of the family’s choosing, and guests take turns to visit with the deceased to pay their final respects. You may wish to share some words or prayers, or simply use the time to reflect on special memories you have with your loved one.
Why Have a Viewing?
Before the funeral service, a viewing can be the ideal time to farewell your loved one in a more intimate setting. Many people find this tradition essential to the grieving process, as it confirms the reality of death – and a viewing’s therapeutic benefits to the healing process are well regarded.
A viewing is an ideal time to show support to the family of the deceased, and to unite with others who are sharing in your loss. It can be an uplifting experience shared between family and friends, creating a bond between those present that they can take into the future.
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